In the midst of chaos I had to find away for the kids to not feel the confusion and given them some normal good fun. So, we went down to the lake for a swim. I was a little nervous having two in the water at once which would be normal but then ad my water fear and I was a little like a bobble head doll with my head nodding back and forth trying to make sure both kids had their head above water. And my no fear Nolan was not trying to dive off the pier. After about 10 minutes we figured out the rules for each kid and the safety areas and it was pretty smooth sailing. Gracie made a friend, surprise, and Nolan just enjoyed poring water over his head.